4 Ways To Experience Joy, Even In Uncertainty.

Joy in uncertainty

Have you ever gone through a difficult, season in your life and thought that you’d never experience joy again?

Guess what?  We all go through various seasons in life, we’re human.

The reality is, life is going to have its ups and downs.

Stuff comes up, situations happen beyond your control, plans get derailed, and that’s just the way life is.

We are often more upset about how things are unfolding, because on some level we feel like we have lost control.

Yet it is in these moments that you must strengthen your faith-muscles and trust that all things work together for your highest good, even if it makes you feel out of control.

It is your belief in something greater that will light the direction of your path and keep you feeling safe, loved, and secure at all times, even when things don’t make sense.

You can experience joy even in uncertainty, however, joy is something you generate from within.

When you experience a feeling of joy and elation, you are tapping into your real self and your connectedness to the divine universal energy of love.

One of the fastest ways of experiencing joy is by dwelling in a state of thankfulness in your heart, and reminding yourself of how good things really are.

You can also sustain the feeling of joy by relishing in the practices that feed your soul.

Here are 4 tips for experiencing joy in the midst of uncertainty:

1)     Relish in the simple things.

I’m a lover of simplicity, and always have been.

What are some of the simple things that bring you joy?

Is it taking a walk in nature? Writing, listening to music, or enjoying a nice dinner with the ones you love?  Whatever it may be, find absolute pleasure in the things that bring you joy, and make time for them everyday. This can create a sustainable state of being; the simpler the better.

2)    Maintain a daily spiritual practice.

A daily spiritual practice involves any activity that brings you into a calm, meditative state and keeps you connected to your soul. This can happen by simply walking in nature while taking long, deep breaths, meditating, listening to your favourite music, or lighting a candle to bring you into a zen space.

It is any activity that keeps you connected to the core of your being. I’ve found, through my own personal experience, that having a daily spiritual practice has helped me to check in with my internal guidance while keeping me rooted, and more importantly, it makes me feel supported.

3)    Make ‘thank you’ your daily mantra.

A thankful heart will always position itself to receive more.

Gratitude is one of the fastest ways to shift your state from lacking to abundant.  A daily gratitude log is a great tool to remind yourself to appreciate what you have, and spins your focus in a positive way. This can help ease the weight of your fears and anxieties.

Gratitude gives a nod to the Universe that says, “hey, I’m actually okay, thank you.”

4)    Service heals – Give.

There is something so beautiful and cathartic when you can give generously, with pure intention. When you help someone else in need, it helps you take your mind off of yourself and your problems. Help someone in need, and watch how fast your mood changes.

I’ve test driven these practices in my own life during moments of the seemingly impossible and they work!

Final thought:

Living in a ‘I’ll be happy when…’ mentality can leave you feeling frustrated because you’re living for some indeterminate time in the future.

Experience your joy by living fully in the present, and working with what you’ve got right in front of you, right now.

I hope this message empowers you to remain in joy no matter the circumstance around you.

All love,

Abby xo

Why Self Care Is An Act Of Self Love.

Fit Young Woman Relaxing On Yoga MatHave you ever looked at your mile-long ‘To Do’ list and felt your entire body tighten up with anxiety?

Having experienced this before, I had to put my own advice into practice, and listen to what my body was telling me. I needed to allow myself to have some downtime (phone off kinda downtime), to restore my energy.

Self-care is so important. Your life has a pulse and a rhythm.

It’s important for us to remember to get off of the treadmill of life on occasion, and slow down.

Sometimes you need to take it easy a little, and nurture yourself.

I love to work and I enjoy being productive.There’s something beautiful about consistency and keeping momentum.

However, there’s a natural ebb and flow to be mindful of, and sometimes there is a need to press in, and sometimes there’s a need to fall back. It’s up to you to respect that ebb and flow, and honor yourself in that process.

There are times when we get caught up with the ‘doing’ and less with ‘being’, and the result is exhaustion.

When we’re in ‘being’ mode, there’s no pushing; things fall together, we’re more balanced within, and aligned. Thus we fall into a natural state of flow.

‘Doing’ mode means living too much in the future, so we push. You end up putting more on your plate, which takes a toll and depletes your energy in the process.

And while the ebb and flow is necessary, we must find that delicate balance and dance between making it happen, and allowing things to happen.

Sometimes ‘busy-ness’ forms a distraction that drowns out your inner guidance that is whispering that we may need some rest.

I learned this valuable lesson in the Executive Search business where I’d be working on a deal to meet monthly targets. But the more I pushed, the more resistance I experienced.

I can recall getting frustrated because I kept focusing on hitting the future target, that I was blinded to all of the signs in front of me that were telling me to fall back for a bit, and not to force the deal.

The moment I detached myself from the outcome, though, and took a step back, the deal always came together.

Sometimes the life lesson is to let go of attachments and allow things to unfold the way they will.

Final thought:  It’s ok to work diligently towards your goals (whatever that may be), but every so often, it’s good to check in with yourself in order to allow divine guidance to lead the way.

Over to you:  Have you ever experienced being mentally and physically exhausted?  And if so, what did you do to replenish yourself?

Or, need advice?

I’d love to hear from you!

Please feel free to share your heartfelt comments with the rest of the community on the blog so that we can support you.

Final thought: I’ve learned that the Universe has a miraculous way of expanding time for you if you listen to the guidance.

Rest easy, you can slay later.

With love,

Abby xo

Why Laughter Is Healthy For Your Life.

Face laughing woman outdoorsHave you ever found yourself in a sticky situation?

I once had a meeting with a client who flew in to discuss how we could provide our services.

I was so excited and nervous for this meeting however, it just so happened that I had a pinched nerve in my right ankle that week, and I could not wear heels.

I panicked, this was an important client however, the meeting had to happen.

So I drove to the meeting in my chic, summer flats and carried a pair of heels for back up, praying that I could wear them sitting down in the boardroom.

Well, it didn’t actually pan out that way after all.

While preparing in the parking lot, my ankle was just not having it.

I panicked and thought “Omg, what am I going to do?”  I had to think quick, “so I thought to heck with it, I’ll wear my flats and just tell them the truth – that I injured my ankle.”

Turned out the client didn’t even notice, we had a wonderful meeting that even led into lunch.

While I was sitting in my car after the meeting I thought to myself, “Wow, I made such a big deal over my ankle and it turned out to be nothing at all.”

Then I burst out laughing at myself limping in the parking lot in stilettos, and thinking about all the unnecessary torment I put myself through in my mind for something so silly.

Laughter has been incredibly cathartic when I’ve found myself in some of the most uncomfortable situations.

In fact, I believe laughter is a powerful, healer.

One of the most important lessons that I have learned over the years is to laugh more, and chill out!

I took myself way too seriously for so many years and fell into the trap of trying to be perfect.

If you can learn to accept your imperfections, forgive yourself more often, and change your dialogue of constant self-criticism so you can speak to yourself in a more loving way, I believe that miraculous shifts can occur in your life.

Do you know that laughter is spirit?

In fact, there is nothing heavy about spirit.  So the question is, why are we so hard on ourselves?

So the next time you slip up, go easy on yourself.

Allow yourself to be a human being, be willing to find the humour in it all, and try again next time.

I hope this message empowers you to experience more joy and laughter in your life.

Now your turn: Does this post resonate with you?

If so, feel free to Share your heartfelt comments with the rest of the community on the blog so that we can support you and I’ll be sure to Reply.

To lots of joy, silliness and laughter!

All love,

Abby xo

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